Nostalgiakitten

To all those who have ever listened, responded, talk to me or even just commented I have an important annocement,
as of Oct. 20th 2014 I will no longer be on deviantart
i may go one every so often but I have found I have neglected my duties her and am no longer in need of it

to all those who read this and all those who see me as an artist, writer and online chat buddie, feel free to comment on why I should stay or how you guys might miss me, I hope you have enjoyed my work and hopefully this won't be the last you see of me

<3 Nostaligiakitten 

Dear Women of the world or to whom ever this may follow to 

Why do you slut shame or call on women for acting like... men?
Men: lots of sex = player!
Women: lots of sex= slut!
Sex isn't a bad thing, it can be a very good thing, it can teach a person a lot about themselves and (Like most everything) if done safely and with all parties in mind it isn't so bad

Why do women call other women for dressing provocatively?
1. Here is the definition of provocatively: Something that provokes or stimulates, usually in a sexual way.
"Jenny's low-cut shirt is so provocative." 
Is it that we constantly get it wrong? What counts as provocative? A low cut top? A mini skirt? What about a tight dress that can be construed as 'sexy' but just makes her feel comfortable and makes her feel beautiful
I once heard the argument that  women slut shame because other these women give other women a bad name... I have some trouble with this argument because slut shaming is a form of bullies because you are condemning people who don't follow your morals 
"slut shame is not about self respect, it's about controlling other women's choices" 
In my opinion, if a woman is having consensual sex and doing it with a person who ins't in a relationship, I don't care and guys know that everyone is different and not every woman is like this
Slut shaming needs to end because
'Calling each other sluts and whore gives guys the excuse to do it to'
You may have different morals but respect differences in other people and don't silently judge them... Say, I understand your lifestyle but it's not for me and it sometimes makes me uncomfortable in the way you dress or the way you act because a woman who goes out with a lot of men can be just as uncomfortable by a shirt that says 'married to Jesus' as a Christian woman can be by a low cut top 
A slut is not a woman with the morals of a man, it is a woman who sells her body and doesn't care about anything but sex, 
Be safe out there and start treating women less like sluts and more like sisters
love you 

Once upon a time
When the earth was young
And when the world was healthy and peaceful
There were three sexes, the children of the sun, moon and earth
The children of the Sun where two men glued back to back
The children of the Earth where the same only two women
And finally the children of the moon where a man and a woman

Now the gods grew quiet scared of them and the mighty god Zeus decided to split them right down the middle with his lightning bolts and the winds spread them across the world
Now people are looking for their other half that was lost so long ago
But so few of them find each other because the gods do not want them to form but Aphrodite disagreed.
She went down to earth and told the people to mash themselves back to gather but sadly they couldn’t although, some could tell their half because of the sudden love they felt while they were doing it and for ever called it making love
Now we wonder as lonely little creatures hoping to find our other half

Hello, Um..... I just got some very bad news about a friend and I just wanted to say something about my philosaphy on life, it  doesn't matter what you  do as long as it is positive and never give up on people and nobody ever dies....... they are always there as good hearted spirits